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Maybe the ratio of winning in life is 1:5; So try and fail... and then win some




I always wonder what is the ratio of our chance at winning in life after all the things and risks I did. What is my ratio of winning? As a writer, I have a non-committal relationship with math or any numbers but if given the chance to know what my chances of winning, then I’ll gladly lend my ears to find out.

I had been blogging for a long time already but it wasn’t easy. I had so many blogs in the past and now they are gone. They are gone mostly because I was undecided about what to write and what niche I really wanted to be in. I had a journal type of blog, I was doing fashion, I was doing travel, and I remember I had a blog for book reviews and poetry and that blog was actually kinda successful since I was contacted by many authors asking me to review their works in exchange of a copy of their books.

 

The book blog was running smoothly until I wasn’t able to read often than needed because I got busy with college. Unfortunately for a bookworm like me, I had to decline book requests because I can no longer cater to the demands. The same fate happened with my fashion and travel blogs, I find myself not having the same intensity I had before to do photoshoots.

 

But despite all of that,  I still manage to stay on my game. Right now I am currently managing 3 websites/blogs; this life website (www.shesaidgoforit.com), the business and lifestyle website (www.mayariwrites.com), and my recently launched music website (www.thedailymixmag.com).

 

To be honest, before I launched the music website I was actually severely hesitant if I will still push through since I don’t think I can pull it off. A friend whom I consulted with ask me if I can still handle another site since my plate is pretty much full, I have a day job and maintaining 3 websites is actually kinda scary and time-consuming.

 

At first, I was thinking maybe I can just add a segment or series on my existing blog, www.mayariwrites.com, about music but after some time thinking I realized that I really wanted a website solely for music.

 

I am not a good singer I am not an artist who is inclined to music producing but I really appreciate music so much you can see it radiating on my IG stories where I post a a substantial amount of songs and artists who are so good.

 

So what’s next for me? I already launched my music website and right now my focus is growing audience for my blogs and giving people the content I wanted to convey the very first time I decided to create these sites. Am I done? Is this my peak?

 

No.

 

If I am being honest I don’t feel content with what I have right now. I want growth, and I don’t think that is a selfish thing to ask. I have a plan to create my own podcast (super late since I wanted to launch this last year) and create a Youtube channel.

 

Is it too much to ask? Am I being too ideal? I don’t know but before anyone of you get skeptical about my plans, I just want everyone to know that you are not alone because I stake claim to be the first.

 

Unfortunately, you cannot pop the bubbles that have been long gone. I’ve been the hardest critic of myself for the longest time and having these plans have me thinking and criticizing myself and my capabilities to do it.

 

Yes, I listen to the voice doubting myself and what’s funny is that it’s kinda helpful. I mean, I don’t need to fake my confidence with myself and I realized that thinking the bad outcome makes me have an answer or back up plan to reverse the skeptic side of my conscience.

 

There was a time where I feel disappointed with all the blogs I created which ceased to exist. And that is the reason why I don’t usually share it online, hence the lack of traffic and marketing. I remember having a blog where most of my engagements are from the other side of the world, that is ironic because Filipinos are known to be super active when it comes to mainstream media.

 

It was hard to let go, it’s hard to accept defeat when you know you have no other choice but to surrender, it lessens you in a way I cannot completely describe. But right now, I am not looking back because I failed so many times. I know better, and I feel that I am smart enough to know that this is not the end game.

 

Now, I am looking forward while carrying my failures and preparing myself for that TED Talk that I really want to have in the future. I will proudly tell my audience how I failed with a lot of things and how I kept on trying.

 

I will carry not just the recognition I’ve gained (or the lack thereof) throughout the years but also the failures I had and I will have.

 

So what if I flapped my podcast, what if my Youtube channel won’t even reach a hundred subscribers, what if my blogs won’t prosper, among those what-ifs my greatest concern is what if I was able to pull through all of this but I’m just so scared to try it out?

 

If you were ever put in a position where you got scared or in doubt always remember that sometimes the ratio of winning is one is to five, so how can you ever get that win if you were so scared to fail? Fail a hundred times and then win some tens.

 

Who cares if the ratio of winning in life is 1:5? Go ahead and try. Maybe that’s a win or maybe not. Fail more...and then win some.

 

And to be honest how can you enjoy the sweetness of your victory if you haven’t tasted the bitterness of your defeat?




I first discover Andy Polk on Jeremy Zucker’s Instagram story since he often shares his music recommendations there.

 

To be honest I am one of those people who cannot, for the love of all the higher-ups, go on with her day without music. I just can’t and sometimes I feel incomplete whenever I don’t have my earphones with me, it belongs to my non-negotiable must-have of every trip.

 

Can you imagine a life without music? I don’t think that’s possible. Even in the film industry silent films still use sounds to portray and execute the story they wanted to tell, and probably one of the greatest examples of this kind of film is the award-winning silent film movie entitled A Quiet Place from Paramount Pictures production.

 

As cliché as it may sound, music has really been one of the reasons why we live and connect. It has been with us ages and had traversed and survived different eras while evolving its style.

 

Today, we are blessed with a lot of talented artists who are brave enough to pursue music that is rebelling the mainstream. We should be thankful that a lot of platforms are already at the disposal of a striving musician, producers, and songwriters. In a snap of their fingers they can upload originals and covers that can reach millions of people. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tiktok, Youtube, and Soundcloud, those are just the common apps that we use but for sure there are hundred more of the same kind.

 

One of my greatest music discovery is Andy Polk.

 

Andy Polk is an American singer/songwriter who currently released his EP entitled 27,84. The EP contains 8 songs in total which can be classified as electro-pop.

 

What I love about this EP is the lyrics together with bop rhythm. To be honest this EP kinda feel personal and raw that sometimes I feel like I’m trespassing his personal space but I’m also thankful at the same time because the lyrics speak to me in some levels.

 

I love how deep and raw the lyrics are and how he’s able to lift the mood of the song by making it upbeat, he was also able to keep the emotions intact using the stress in his voice.

 

This EP feels like his life’s reel, he opened up real big. It’s very personal yet universal. The way he pours his mind makes you feel like it is your own thoughts. His songs are creatively written the same as the way we think.

 

I got caught by Andy Polk’s EP 27,84 because of how it is poetically written minus the common rhythm and language most artists use right now. I love how it is upbeat but at the same time not sounding trying hard.

 

 

On Andy Polk’s previous EP Anyway, you will notice that it’s more about relationships and the likes. At some point we can say that it is personal as well but in a different field of being personal. This EP Anyway, feels like more about outside relationships of a person.

 

On the other hand, Andy Polk’s 27,84 EP feels like a journal- his diary poured and coated with rhythm. This EP is more about his relationship with his self and how outside relationship affects him. In this EP he talked about getting lost, the anxiety of getting old, meeting other people, and getting his heartbroken.

 

To be honest every song on Andy Polk’s 27,84 EP is relatable, I love everyone of it.

 

I relate to I/Keep/getting/l0st..Oo (that's how the title is spelled and stylized) because there are times where you will feel defeated, lost, and feel like giving up. This is very us, the millennial, and how we cope with adulthood. The song is like a transition of a floating thought which came from nowhere. Like the thoughts you have whenever you are traveling in a bus looking out the window, it’s fleeting and comes fast and goes away the same way it comes.

 

‘Wait’ is a good one as well. The society keeps on telling us that we should wait for our time, but sometimes we just can’t help but question when it’ll come to us. When are we going to have our own time? Or is there really a perfect timing for everything? This song question a lot of things around us, love, trust, belief, and other stuff.

 

Twenty Three is my favorite because I am nearing my 23rd birthday when I first heard it and I realized that the lyrics of it are the thoughts that I never knew existed but are actually inside of my mind. The indecisiveness, anxiety, fear, disappointment, and hope are all there. And that’s how I feel when I realized I am nearing my 23rd.

 

 I feel like I still have things to see, do, and say. I am dreading the time of my birthday because I feel like people eyes me and have questions that I don’t want to answer and I feel like my birthday should be just a regular day. I don’t want to be alone but I don’t want to be with people who will only ask questions I’m not ready to hear or answer. That’s the reason why it is my favorite song from Andy Polk’s 27,84 EP

 

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